
San Diego County
Memory care near me: what these homes are actually approved for
California does not license memory care. A home advertising it holds the same licence as the house next door. What the state does record is whether a home may accept somebody who tries to leave — and across the county it states that approval for 27 of the 380. Read 21 October 2026.
All 380 licensed homes in the county hold the same licence: Residential Care Facility for the Elderly. There is no separate memory-care category for the state to inspect against, so “memory care” on a brochure describes a service somebody is selling, not a standard somebody has met.
What is on the record is narrower and far more useful. Delayed egress is the approval a home needs before it can accept a resident at risk of walking out. The state states it for 27 homes here, records a secured perimeter at 7.
For the other 353 the record says nothing at all. The Department writes these approvals as free text on a licence rather than as a field, so silence here is silence, not a refusal. It is the question to put to the home in writing before anybody signs — not a reason to cross it off, and not permission either.
The question that comes before any tour
Does she actually need a secured building?
Often not — and being sold one she does not need is both expensive and isolating. A great deal of dementia is not wandering dementia. Somebody who repeats questions, loses track of medication or can no longer manage a kitchen safely may do far better in one of the 285 six-bed houses here, with the same three faces every day, than behind a keypad in a purpose-built wing.
The question is not how advanced the diagnosis is. It is whether she tries to leave, and whether she would be safe if she succeeded. Those are different questions with different answers, and the second is what the delayed-egress approval exists for.
On the record
The 27 the state records as approved for delayed egress
Listed largest first, which is a fact rather than an opinion. This is not a recommendation and not a shortlist — it is what the licence record states, and approvals change.
Vi At La Jolla Village
Licence 374600675 · 783 licensed beds · San Diego · ZIP 92122
Casa De Las Campanas
Licence 374600488 · 582 licensed beds · San Diego · ZIP 92127
Fredericka Manor
Licence 374603402 · 560 licensed beds · Chula Vista · ZIP 91910
Wesley Palms
Licence 374600800 · 511 licensed beds · San Diego · ZIP 92109
Grossmont Gardens Senior Living
Licence 374604675 · 425 licensed beds · La Mesa · ZIP 91942
White Sands La Jolla
Licence 372000641 · 299 licensed beds · La Jolla · ZIP 92037
The Montera
Licence 374604855 · 225 licensed beds · La Mesa · ZIP 91942
Belmont Village La Jolla
Licence 374604562 · 220 licensed beds · La Jolla · ZIP 92037
Meadowbrook Village Christian Retirement Community
Licence 374603081 · 200 licensed beds · Escondido · ZIP 92026
St. Paul's Villa
Licence 370804823 · 200 licensed beds · San Diego · ZIP 92101
The Pasea
Licence 374604968 · 180 licensed beds · Chula Vista · ZIP 91913
Westmont of La Mesa
Licence 374604079 · 164 licensed beds · La Mesa · ZIP 91942
Westmont Of Carmel Valley
Licence 374604692 · 138 licensed beds · San Diego · ZIP 92130
Bayshire Torrey Pines
Licence 374604784 · 125 licensed beds · San Diego · ZIP 92130
Rancho Penasquitos Senior Living
Licence 374604542 · 120 licensed beds · San Diego · ZIP 92129
Westmont at San Miguel Ranch
Licence 374603509 · 105 licensed beds · Chula Vista · ZIP 91914
Gardens at Escondido
Licence 374604545 · 101 licensed beds · Escondido · ZIP 92026
Ivy Park At Sabre Springs
Licence 374604747 · 100 licensed beds · San Diego · ZIP 92128
Tuscan Hills Senior Living
Licence 371881692 · 94 licensed beds · Escondido · ZIP 92027
Oakmont Of Pacific Beach
Licence 374604281 · 92 licensed beds · San Diego · ZIP 92109
Bliss Assisted Living & Memory Care
Licence 374604986 · 85 licensed beds · National City · ZIP 91950
Parkview Memory Care at Paradise Village
Licence 374603713 · 70 licensed beds · National City · ZIP 91950
Lo-har Senior Living
Licence 374604171 · 68 licensed beds · El Cajon · ZIP 92019
Grossmont Gardens Memory Care
Licence 374604684 · 64 licensed beds · La Mesa · ZIP 91942
Activcare At 4S Ranch
Licence 374603714 · 60 licensed beds · San Diego · ZIP 92127
Revere La Jolla
Licence 374603724 · 52 licensed beds · La Jolla · ZIP 92037
Avantgarde Senior Living Of La Jolla
Licence 374604261 · 45 licensed beds · La Jolla · ZIP 92037
Worth noticing: every one of these is a large community, the smallest at 45 beds. Not one six-bed house in the county carries the approval in the record we read — which is a feature of this county rather than a rule about small homes, since in Riverside some six-bed houses do hold it. Confirm any approval with the home in writing, and look the licence up yourself in the state’s Care Facility Search.
Searching in another county? Senior Placement Anaheim covers Orange County and Senior Placement Riverside covers Riverside County and the Inland Empire.
Tell us what she actually does — not the diagnosis, the behaviour — and we will tell you which homes can accept it, which are worth your afternoon, and which are selling you a locked door you do not need.
Before you look at a single price
Medicare does not pay for this
Medicare’s own long-term care page opens with the sentence “Medicare doesn’t pay for long-term care”, marks it not covered and says you pay all costs. A dementia diagnosis does not change that.
Medicare does pay a limited rehabilitation stay in a skilled nursing facility after a qualifying hospital admission, and it pays for hospice — including for advanced dementia, which matters more here than families expect. The residence itself comes from private funds, a long-term care policy, Medi-Cal and its waivers, or VA benefits.
Medicare.gov, long-term care coverage, read 26 October 2026.
Questions
What families ask about memory care
- Is memory care a different kind of licence in California?
- No, and almost nobody is told this. California does not license “memory care”. A home advertising it holds the same licence as any other residential care home for the elderly — an RCFE — so the words on the brochure describe a service being sold, not a standard the state inspects against. What the state does record are specific approvals, and those decide whether a particular home can accept a particular person.
- Then what should I actually be checking?
- Whether the home is approved for what your relative actually does. If she tries to leave, the approval that matters is delayed egress — the locks, alarms and staffing a home needs before it can accept somebody at risk of walking out. Across the 380 licensed homes in San Diego County the state's record states that approval for 27. For the rest the record says nothing, which is a question to ask rather than an answer.
- Why are all of them large communities?
- On the record in San Diego County, they are. Every home here with a stated delayed-egress approval is a large community; not one six-bed house in the county carries it in the record we read. That is not true everywhere — in Riverside some six-bed houses do hold it — so it is a feature of this county rather than a rule about small homes. It also means that if a secured setting is genuinely needed here, the realistic options are larger buildings.
- Does my mother need a secured building at all?
- Often not, and being sold one she does not need is expensive and isolating. A great deal of dementia is not wandering dementia: somebody who repeats questions, loses track of medication or can no longer manage a kitchen safely may do far better in a six-bed house with the same few faces every day than behind a keypad. The question is not how advanced the diagnosis is, it is whether she tries to leave and whether she would be safe if she succeeded.
- How do I check a home's record myself?
- Every licensed home has a public record: licence status, licensed beds, how many times the state visited, the citations it issued and how many complaints were substantiated. All 380 homes in the county are on our registers with those figures, and you can look up any licence number yourself in the state's Care Facility Search. Read a citation count next to the visit count beside it — a home visited forty times will show more findings than one visited four.
- Does Medicare pay for memory care?
- No. Medicare's own long-term care page opens with the sentence “Medicare doesn’t pay for long-term care”, marks it not covered and says you pay all costs. A dementia diagnosis does not change that. Medicare does pay a limited rehabilitation stay in a skilled nursing facility after a qualifying hospital admission, and it pays for hospice, including for advanced dementia. The residence itself comes from private funds, a long-term care policy, Medi-Cal and its waivers, or VA benefits.
- Do you charge families to help?
- You never get an invoice. A home pays us a commission when somebody we introduce moves in. Almost nobody in this industry bills families, so “free” does not distinguish anyone — we would rather tell you who does pay, and have you ask us about that relationship whenever we recommend something.
Last reviewed . Figures are re-checked against their sources whenever this page is revised.
The brochure will not tell you what she is approved for
We read the licence record before we take anybody to see a home, and we will tell you plainly whether she needs a secured setting at all. It costs your family nothing.
Who are we helping?
Start with your family member. You can discuss the details with us by phone.
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